I heard about what happened to you. Its not that we've been sharing gossip, but people have been talking, and we mean well. We are very concern about you - your well-being and how this would affect your family. I can't possibly imagine what you're going through. I think it's too much for anyone to endure this kind of scenario and I won't even try to comprehend it. No one I guess would ever understand the weight of it all.
All I can say is that I'm here for you, that's what's important. Don't hesitate just let me know what I can do to help.